“Beti” means daughter in Hindi. My uncle and aunt got this beautiful cake for us a few weeks ago.
Letting the daughters of the family feel special and loved without any occasion is such a beautiful idea.
I believe we do not need a particular day to make our loved ones feel special… but still, a very happy women’s day to all the women out there!
The sun rose and knocked,
We left for a morning walk
I saw a squirrel on a tree,
Swear it stopped and smiled at me.
The songs of birds at first light,
The freshness of the day,
The shadows of the early sunrise,
And the clean, crisp air
There is so much to see
The flowers, the birds, the honeybee
The grass under my feet
All of those await me.
But I stay and gaze
At the scurrying squirrel
And his faithful friends
Observing their eccentric ways
One makes a funny noise,
I laugh aloud, it runs away
They go round n round
Scuttle to and fro
Aimlessly digging holes in the ground
When everything else fails,
They chase their very own tails!
That is what they do,
Just like me and you
They save for winter
But never forgets how,
To live for the moment,
To enjoy the now
And that’s how squirrels are clever,
Than humans can be ever!
“Oh, books, what books they used to know,
Those children living long ago!
So please, oh please, we beg, we pray,
Go throw your TV set away,
And in its place you can install
A lovely bookshelf on the wall”
Read the full poem http:// m.poemhunter.com/poem/television/
Majority of us like to be liked. It feels great to be a nice person and to do our best to help other people out where we can. But is it possible to care too much? To care so much about other people that they walk all over us?
While I am very much in favor of ‘To be happy, make others happy’, sometimes, it has to be the other way round.
It’s one thing to make others happy by making little sacrifices. That’s perfectly fine. But to make someone the centre of your life and push away everything else that mattered to you is perfectly NoT fine. Why? Because it will eventually make you unhappy. Because you will eventually lose the point of life. And the person you did it for, will not even appreciate it. And when they fail to appreciate your efforts, they take you for granted.
So, how do you manage empathy and selfishness? Because no matter what one would like to believe, selfishness is a virtue. Well, sometimes. Loving someone with all your heart is great, but being submissive all the time isn’t. Don’t be their doormat. Let them love you too.
Here’s something I have learnt over the years.
- Grow a back bone.
- Grow a back bone
- Grow a back bone (Because “growing” a backbone takes time, courage and effort and a LOT of self control.
- Get back to your hobbies and the things you stopped doing.
- Make friends.
- Do something meaningful.
- Smile more frequently.
- Get a life. Rebuild it.
Do it Don Draper’s way – “I have a life and it goes only in one direction. Forward”
Sometimes, all I want is someone to hug me and say,
“I know it’s hard. But it’s all going to be okay. Here is chocolate and six millions dollars”
Let your feelings show,
Love to your heart’s content,
Before you finally Let Go…
Even Starbucks knows all about me! 😀
There was a time when I never used to let the sun catch me asleep.
The morning sunshine, the koel’s song or even the rooster’s crowing had a calming effect.
Just let the sun’s first rays adorn your face and brighten your day!
Then I grew out of the habit. Because, life.
After many months, I felt the magic of sunrise again.
The beauty of nature, the tranquility of mornings, is inexpressibly blissful.
Loving yourself is about enjoying your life, trusting your own feelings, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning from the past.
Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not exactly how you planned, but just how it’s meant to be.
You are the books you read,
The people you meet.
The dreams you make,
The words you speak.
And you are, what you take from these.
Let the colors fill your mind
Carry your own sunshine
Live the truth,
Express your love,
Do more, need less,
Laugh a lot and be blessed.
See the wonder of it all,
Marvel at the sight,
Share the happiness,
Celebrate the life.
Dream big, but never be,
In too much hurry,
To stop and smell… to feel… to touch or to see.
So celebrate what has been given,
The tiny bit of heaven!